10 COMMANDMENTS OF ONLINE RELATIONSHIPS (2)

cyber-relations-virtuality-and-realityWe have been dealing with guidelines for online relationships, particularly our social networking connections. Today, we highlight five other commandments for those you connect with online.

6. THOU SHALL ONLY MEET IN PERSON WITH PEOPLE WHOSE CHARACTER YOU HAVE PROVEN OVER TIME, AND ONLY DO SO IN PUBLIC PLACES, AND DO NOT GO ALONE. You can’t just travel to meet a person you hardly know because you met them online yesterday. Many have met their untimely death that way. First, you must patiently prove your online friend’s integrity for a long time, after which, should you wish to visit them, insist on using public places like a mall or a public restaurant, not in their homes or in hotel rooms. You must also insist on coming with a friend for security purposes. Please you don’t have two lives, refuse to be careless with the one you have. Continue reading

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10 COMMANDMENTS OF ONLINE RELATIONSHIPS

cyber-relations-virtuality-and-realityWe cannot deny the fact that online platforms,particularly social networking platforms, have become a major force in postmodern relationships. Perhaps because of my generation’s mindset, this is hard to acknowledge, but the younger generations have been born into this reality. These younger generation of lovers have no problem with using these technological tools for their relationship advantage. No rationally thinking person can deny the impact of social networking on our love lives anymore. Continue reading

I WON’T LET YOU MENTOR ME IN LOVE WITHOUT THEM

Chalkboard "Mentorship"In the last few days we have been dealing with the impact of mentoring on our relationships. In the most recent past, I dealt with certain qualities or qualifications of a good love mentor. I intend to complete what I started today. The following are additional non negotiable qualities that I require from any individual before submitting my love life to their mentorship. Continue reading

5 THINGS I LOOK FOR IN A LOVE MENTOR

bigstock-Mentoring-related-words-concep-25300277It takes a mentor to get to your love promised land. However, choosing the wrong mentor can be catastrophic to your love life. How does one distinguish between a potential mentor and a tormentor? The following are five things I consider in a person before I adopt them as a mentor. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(1): 12 LOVE QUOTES THAT CHANGED MY LIFE

  1. If their love for you isn’t being displayed, you are being played

  2. It is not enough for you to be in love, it is important for you to say so
  3. Most ladies need to hear the words I love you from their partner consistently, to exist in a state of emotional equilibrium
  4. What one means to the whole world doesn’t matter if one means nothing to those closest to you
  5. Maturity is the ability to maintain proximity without familiarity
  6. Until you know the one you claim to love you don’t own them
  7. Loving by insight is superior to loving by sight
  8. Loving hard will do you no good if you are not loving smart
  9. Once you are on the receiving end of extreme benevolence the relationship needs to be defined
  10. The only thing worse than choosing a wrong lover is choosing a wrong love mentor
  11. The fact that someone is a public celebrity doesn’t mean that they have to be your personal authority.
  12. Experience is not the best teacher, experience is the costliest teacher

THE GREATEST IS LOVE.

Deji Olabode
Love Dynamics Global
Enthronement Assembly Lagos
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WHO IS YOUR LOVE MENTOR?

bigstock-Mentoring-related-words-concep-25300277Show me your love mentor, and I can predict how your love will end. The only thing worse than choosing a wrong lover, is choosing a wrong love mentor. I believe there is a love philosopher in every human being but if you subscribe to the wrong love concepts, your love life is doomed. The ideas and advices you choose to bow to, can determine the state of your love life for decades to come. Continue reading

YOU ARE DEFINITELY IN LOVE IF…

imagesCan one be in love without knowing it? The answer is a categorical YES. It is humbling for me to acknowledge that love can sneak up on us sometimes. I have in my teachings over the years made a strong distinction between real love(genuine and sincere love) and right love(accurate and ethical love). The fact that a love is real doesn’t necessarily mean that such love is right. In this article I am not concerning myself with the rightness of love but with the realness of it. Continue reading

HOW HIGH IS YOUR LOVE IQ?

Loving hard will do you no good if you are not loving smart. The major cause of love disappoints in our day is the human tendency to suspend our minds,while the heart is in full gear. Over the years, I have propagated the inadequacy of loving with the heart and might, without loving with our minds and souls. The new breed of smart lovers will insist on a brand of love that abounds in knowledge and judgment before they decide to let themselves go in love. Continue reading

WHERE HAS THIS LOVE DOCTOR AND APOSTLE BEEN?

I am not sure it’s appropriate for me to apologize for taking yesterday off blogging to honor my new born baby. I have always considered it a badge of honor to live one’s message. It just didn’t seem love appropriate for me to spend the day tinkering with technological devices, when the love of my life was enduring labor pains. The 40,000 of you, who have followed my over 100 love posts, from about 80 nations, shouldn’t be surprised I made such a love oriented choice. Continue reading

HOW TO MAKE YOUR LOVE STICK

One of the most painful love observations of my life is that, it is possible for you to love someone genuinely, and for your love not to register in their consciousness. This can be intensely frustrating for the one initiating the love gesture. A primary example of this is the creator’s love for his creatures, evidenced by the remarkable provisions of nature, existing in deliberate eco-systemic balance. Obvious as this may seem, many live their whole lives without getting the point that the creator’s overwhelming disposition towards them is one of love Continue reading