THE ABC OF GETTING YOUR HEART BROKEN

heartbreak009Heartbreaks are not mysteries. I dare say heartbreaks are very predictable. In most cases when people end up heartbroken it is usually a function of ignorance. By this I mean those who get heartbroken are actually ignoring certain important factors of relationship success. They may be ignoring principles,practices or personalities. Something you are ignoring is responsible for the pain you are experiencing. The following are the basics of getting ones heart broken. Those who avoid these errors will be rewarded with emotional stability beyond their imagination. Continue reading

WHY MOST CELEBRITY LOVE LIVES CRASH

1320077226_kim-kardashian-divorce-467Who wants to be a celebrity? I think deep down, we all do. We all yearn to be celebrated. We all yearn to attain the peak of our various professions. This is a very natural desire in all of us. What we however aren’t aware of, is the personal and relational price we have to pay for staying at the top of our game. Hardly does a week go by, without the news telling us about another celebrity break up. These ranges from high profile divorces to clandestine sexual affairs to even violent physical abuses. Continue reading

HOW TO LOSE YOUR LOVER

the-things-you-take-for-granted-someone-else-is-praying-for-quote-quotes-about-enjoy-the-moment-936x1210Finding someone to love is by far easier than keeping the one you have found. There are more who know how to find love, than there are people who know how to keep it. If you ever lose your lover, the reasons though many, will not exclude TAKING YOUR PARTNER FOR GRANTED. This has been at the root of most relationship breakdowns in our era. There is an erroneous concept being popularized by many people in our day. Owing to past disappointments, many have come to believe that the less you show your true love for another, the more attached they will be to you. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(5):12 POWERFUL LOVE ANCHORS TO LIVE BY

1. If the creator intended for us to have multiple love partners, He would have given us multiple hearts.

2. Specialization is a function of focus on a singular thing or person.

3. Until we accept where we have been,we won’t be free to embrace where we are going.

4. Anyone who is unwilling to accept your past,is not qualified to be in your future.

5. You don’t have to be the same,for your relationship to be sane.

6. Your partner’s point of weakness is your point of relevance in their life. Get to work.

7.If you fail at loving yourself,you are not likely to succeed at loving anyone else.

8. You can predict how a person will love you eventually,by how they are loving themselves presently.

9. Self hatred is the breeding ground for abusive relationships.

10. In my opinion, love shouldn’t be constrained to a day,a week or a month. It should be an overall disposition to life.

11.Our vulnerabilities fosters humility and humility fosters affinity.

12. It doesn’t take a great wedding to have a great marriage. Get your priorities right.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

THE WISDOM IN HAVING A SINGLE LOVER

monogamyMaturity is realizing that, the fact that you can, doesn’t necessarily mean that you should. We all have the capacity for multiple love affairs in our connected world, but does that mean that we should have them? This inclination for multiple love affairs is all the more bolstered by the proliferation of mobile and social networking technologies. The real revolution of these technologies is not communication, as much as it is access. For the first time in a century, we can have unrestricted access to anyone, anywhere in the world with the capabilities of exchanging text, voice and images with them. This subtle access revolution has led to a global explosion of multiple love affairs. Continue reading

THE TWO MOST DIFFICULT THINGS TO DO IN LOVE

word-art-heart-painting-forgive-originalWhat is the most difficult battle many will have to overcome in love? I dare say it is the battle of forgiveness. One thing you can count on in life is that offenses must come. We all have the choice of either taking offense or forgiving the offense. Those who chose the former over the latter, are bound to live bitter, unfulfilled lives that would greatly corrupt their love potential absolutely. Continue reading

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING YOU CAN DO FOR YOUR LOVE LIFE

take-care-of-yourselfIf there is no you, there can be no us. Smart lovers understand the fact that the most important thing you can do for your lover, as well as your love life is to TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. Simple as this may sound, self neglect has become a common attribute of many modern relationships. Many people loose track of who they are, all in the name of love, and end up being an impoverished shadow of who they were meant to be in life. This ought not be so. Any love that makes you bitter instead of better can’t be the accurate choice of the creator for you. You might not be able to force your partner to take care of you, but at least you can take care of yourself. One strategic benefit of taking care of yourself is that, if you maintain your dignity and value as an individual by taking good care of yourself, you stand a better chance of securing future love prospects, in case the one you are with messes up. Continue reading

4 WAYS TO LOVE YOURSELF

keep-calm-and-love-yourself-579No one can love you like you, because no one knows you like you. Today we want to consider some practical ways to do so. Learning to love yourself will set a remarkable standard for anyone coming into your life to live up to. Without this personal love standard in place, you run the risk of being abused, misused and undermined in your love endeavors. Here they are. Continue reading

DO THIS BEFORE ATTEMPTING TO LOVE ANYONE

Self-love-is-not-selfish-narcissism2I have always believed that everything that will last must have a solid foundation. This includes love. The most authentic foundation for love is self love. Except this foundation is in place,all our external attempts at loving will fail. Here are few reasons why loving yourself is a vital priority.

IF YOU FAIL AT LOVING YOU, YOU ARE NOT. LIKELY TO SUCCEED AT LOVING ANYONE ELSE. This is because we can only treat a person as good as we treat ourselves. In many cases self haters make the worst kind of lovers, because all our strategies for love are derived from how we love ourselves. It is the limit of all our external expression of love for anyone. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT (4): STRIKING LOVE INSIGHTS FOR TRENDY LOVERS

  1. The essence of pairing is sharing.

  2. It is wiser to base your relationship on a common future, rather than a common past.
  3. Maturity is not the ability to deny reality,it is the ability to confront it.
  4. Denying reality can never nullify reality.
  5. Basing your future with someone on the probability of their change,rather than on the certainty of their change,is at best emotional gambling.
  6. I will rather risk the possibility of finding someone good in future,than live with the certainty of having someone bad in the present.
  7. Truth is the seed of trust.
  8. A sure way to know you have been deceived 100%, is when you claim to trust a human being 100%.
  9. Never conform to whatever you have not confirmed.
  10. To understand success,you have to be a student of failure.
  11. Your voice might give you the right to speak,but only your results give you the right to be heard.
  12. Great relationships are not based upon individual reluctance,they are based on mutual acceptance.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE

Deji Olabode

Love Dynamics Global.

Enthronement Assembly Lagos.

lovedynamix@gmail.com

@lovedynamix on twitter.

BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945