LOVE ON POINT(9): 12 LOVE IDEAS YOU NEED TO KNOW

1. The root of great faith is great love

2. It is unfair to demand of your partner, something you are not.

3. Calling right wrong,and calling wrong right is an element of insanity.

4. There is dignity and nobility in virginity.

5. None of us can change our histories but we all can rewrite our destinies.

6. The past is past.

7. Observation is the food of reflection

8. Our actions always tends to catch up with our thoughts. Think right.

9. In love,what is not defined,can be denied.

10. All claims of love at first sight,is actually lust at first sight

11. The ultimate expression of love is faith and belief in a particular individual.

12. Believing is the highest honor you can bestow upon an individual.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
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THE VALUE OF VIRGINITY

There is dignity and nobility in virginity. This is an undebatable fact. Owing to the fact that virgins seem to be the minority in our society,there is need to assert the value and virtue of this minority clearly in the minds of people. The point in doing this is not to make non virgins feel guilty,not at all. The essence is to enable our society place appropriate value on these individuals,who are vibrant voices of morality in our time. You may never be called to love a virgin,but we can all at least respect the value that they represent. Continue reading

ONCE UPON A VIRGIN

Virgins might be scarce in our society but I fully believe they exist. Nothing sickens me like sexually promiscuous individuals who still insist on marrying virgins. I once read of a male actor who obviously wasn’t a virgin, insisting that the reason why he wasn’t married was that he was looking for a virgin to marry. I wanted to tell him to his face that, at the rate of his sexual promiscuity, no virgins will be left by the time he was ready to marry. It is practically unfair to desire what you are not in a partner. Continue reading

SO YOU CALL YOURSELF A VIRGIN?

virginAlmost nothing is as controversial in our society as the subject of virginity. There are those who believe that virgins are an endangered species in our generation. Many believe that virgins no longer exist in our sexually crazed world. I beg to differ. There are also those who believe that being a virgin is antisocial, that those who maintain sexual celibacy are mentally retarded and are missing out on the ultimate elixir of sexual sophistication. I also beg to differ. Continue reading

THE METAMORPHOSIS OF LOVE

love-love-31236730-1280-800Real love is never sudden in nature. It always has a process and a procedure. Those who ignore the valid process of love and favor a short cut to their destination in love always end up creating a problem rather than a solution. The microwave approach to love never works. This of course is why I do not believe in love at first sight. Most of such claims are actually lust at first sight. So today let’s attempt to unveil the step by step process that all lasting loves pass through. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(8): 12 RADICAL IDEAS FOR CONTEMPORARY LOVERS.

1. For your love to live,your ego has to die.

2. It is wisdom to clarify the when of your marriage before beginning your courtship.

3. The primal solutions to sexual promiscuity are long friendships,short courtships and early marriages.

4. Condoms won’t protect you from heartbreak.

5. It is folly to value the protection of your genitals over the protection of your heart and mind.

6. Condoms won’t protect you from expiration.

7. Condoms won’t protect you from being replaced.

8. The violation of our personal consciences is what produces guilt,and guilt is the mother of low self esteem.

9. To succeed in love,you must have made abstinence a competence.

10. Abstinence can not be learned in marriage,it is better developed during courtship.

11. Humans are addicted to simplicity and averse to complexity

12. It is really difficult to please anybody who doesn’t know what pleases them.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

3 SEX SOLUTIONS

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Sex is pervasive in our generation. A great deal of the relationships in our day are based solely on sexual exploitation. This hasn’t helped both the quality and longevity of our love lives much. Unfortunately most of us have adopted “A THOU SHALL NOT” approach to the malaise of sexual promiscuity, but it isn’t working. Just telling a person to stop doing something they enjoy doing isn’t a good strategy for behavioral modification. We must also give them compelling reasons why not to do it, as well as letting them know how to do it legitimately. Continue reading

THE CONDOM CONUNDRUM

Sexual promiscuity is a global issue. The sexual revolution of the 1960s completely changed the moral landscape of humanity forever. The seed for the sexual chaos of today was aggressively and intentionally sown in those years. The outcome is the global explosion of pornography, divorce, rape and sexually related crimes. The religious institutions of our day has simply responded to this sexual onslaught by quoting what their respective sacred books said is unethical. Unfortunately this has not worked, since even the adherents of the various faiths are also caught up in these sexual vices.

The secular society on the other hand, is attempting to cure the ills of sexual promiscuity by promoting the widespread use of contraceptives like condoms and the pill. Those who see condoms as the panacea for all sexual ills are grossly underestimating the role of impulse and spontaneity in humans at the point of sexual intercourse. If religious, governmental and business institutions are confused as to how to deal with promiscuity, the onus rests solely with the individual to seek personal clarity on the merits and limits of the use of contraceptives vis a vis the development of responsible,sexually ethical behaviors. The following are five things that condoms will not protect you from.

  1. CONDOMS WON’T PROTECT YOU FROM HEARTBREAK. Have you ever heard of condoms for the heart? I doubt it. I often laugh when people are quick to pull out a condom before engaging in illegitimate sex,calling it protection. Health savvy as such actions may seem,they reveal a fundamental misplacement of priorities. They seem to me,to value the protection of their genitalia over the protection of their heart and minds, and that is unfortunate. One ancient writer speaks of guarding our hearts with all diligence,for out of it flows the issues of life. We must value the protection of our hearts and mind over our genitals.

  2. CONDOMS WON’T PROTECT YOU FROM EXPIRATION. Countless times I have had single ladies particularly confess the drastic change in attitude to them of most men after sex outside wedlock. Well I always have a hard time explaining to them,that their awe has expired in his eyes. Seldom do men regard with awe women that they have sexually conquered. One way to maintain that awe in courtship is by saving sex for marriage. So if you don’t want to expire fast,zip up.
  3. CONDOMS WON’T PROTECT YOU FROM BEING REPLACED. Nothing is as painful as seeing someone you were once sexually intimate with,in the sexual embrace of somebody else. The blatant truth is that anyone who is irresponsible enough to be sexually promiscuous with you,has automatically proven to you that they are likely to be irresponsible enough to be promiscuous with someone else. The only way to avoid such traumas is to choose not to be promiscuous at all.
  4. CONDOMS WON’T PROTECT YOU FROM THE GUILT. Promiscuity always leaves the bitter after taste of guilt on us all. It could be the guilt of an abortion or even the guilt of cheating on another, just to mention but a few. No one needs to be taught what is right or wrong. We all were born with an inbuilt ethical regulatory system called the conscience. The violation of our personal consciences is what produces guilt. That guilt is the mother of low self esteem in all humans.
  5. CONDOMS WON’T PROTECT YOU FROM JUDGEMENT. There is an undeniable judgment for living a sexually promiscuous life,except one changes their ways. This judgment could come in form of a shattered marriage,an unwanted pregnancy,a fatally complicated abortion, a sexually transmitted disease, just to mention but a few. None of us is smart enough to escape the consequences of our wrong actions except we genuinely turn a new leaf.

This is not to mention the various spiritual and financial complications that trail promiscuity. The bottom line is that we should be more concerned with protecting our entire life, than with the protection of our genitals. The surest way to protect your life is by living a sexually responsible life and by confining your sexual rendezvous to the institution of marriage. Anything else is bound to cause you pain sooner or later.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

HOW TO BE A FAILURE IN LOVE

???Life is a test and love is a test as well. How well you perform in the tests that life gives you, will determine the quality of success you command. One of the biggest love tests you will have to pass to succeed in love is called the ABSTINENCE TEST. Abstinence isn’t a popular word in our sexually permissive society, but hopefully after reading this article you will realize that without a foundation of abstinence, our love lives will fail to fulfill its potential. Our culture considers it cool for people who aren’t maritally committed to be sexually committed. What they fail to realize is that this lack of sexual discipline and abstinence is costing us qualitative love. The problem with giving in to your unmarried lover’s several sexual demands is that it destroys their capacity for delayed sexual gratification. Without abstinence, our partners are susceptible to the many sexual temptations that are undermining both marriages and courtships alike. If you erroneously train your partner to always have their way with you sexually, in spite of your lack of marriage, don’t be surprised when they can’t deny themselves for you when abstinence is needed the most. Continue reading