5 WAYS TO HANDLE YOUR INLAWS IN LOVE

may12-pg26The appreciation of in laws is the beginning of wisdom for any long term relationship. In laws can make the difference between the life and death of your marriage or relationship. In law politics is one of the mandatory courses that I teach couples when I conduct premarital counseling for young couples. The reason is because it doesn’t matter how much you love your partner,if in laws are not well managed,the chances of that love working out are definitely slim. In laws can make the difference between a relationship heaven or hell. Just as the immediate environment of a plant determines it’s longevity, the atmosphere created by in laws can impact your relationship heavily. Here are some keys… Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(13): 12 LOVE REALITIES YOU NEED TO KNOW

1. The essence of insurance is assurance.

2. No human being can tame the other’s excesses,only the creator can tame us all.

3. Anyone who can live to please the creator will automatically please you.

4. You must cultivate your streams of income before cultivating the stream of love.

5. Extreme dependency creates resentment in the one you are depending upon.

6. Working ladies are more reasonable in their demand for male attention,because they have a life to tend.

7. How a love prospect treats ordinary people says more about who they are,than how they treat you.

8. Love evaporates,if proper care is not taken.

9. You don’t know a person until you have had a conflict with them.

10. There is a time when it makes more sense to leave than to love.

11. Leaving makes more sense than loving,when your loving has become a threat to your living.

12. Whatever you tolerate will proliferate.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE.
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
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* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

WHEN LEAVING THEM MAKES MORE SENSE THAN LOVING THEM

h70374109Is love meant to last forever? Theoretically YES,but practically NO. Many have held on to false claims of love for too long and they have gotten themselves mortally wounded in the process. There is a time when it makes more sense to leave than to love. How does one know when you have arrived at that point? When should love quit in spite of the affections? We want to answer these questions as practically as possible today. Continue reading

3 WAYS TO INSURE YOUR LOVE LIFE

InsureYourLoveLogoLove for me is not enough. If you have been around a while, you can testify that a person‘s love for you is not all it takes for a relationship to work. The irony of love is that some of the people who we claim to love the most may not necessarily be the ones we end up with in life. I am talking today about how to insure your love life. The essence of insurance is assurance. Is your love life insured? Is the love that person claims to have for you insured? Love is a very risky business. Continue reading

WHERE DID ALL MY LOVE GO?

1386629840276Love evaporates if proper care is not taken. Nothing is more common than the ex lovers who now hate themselves with a higher degree of negative passion. When I attend weddings, I am usually very pensive because, who can tell if this newly wed couple will join the growing group of failed marriages that litter the relational streets of our society. How can we predict that the young passionate lovers who can hardly get their hands off each other won’t be vicious enemies down the road? To tame the rate of the evaporation of love,the evaporating factors must be identified and deliberately curtailed. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(12);12 UNDENIABLE LOVE FACTS

1. The key to ending up small in life is to only like those that like you,and to only love those that love you.

2. To be outstanding in life,your circle of loving must be larger than your circle of liking.

3. In love,as well as in life,your point of view is largely determined by your viewing point.

4. No matter who you are or what you do in life,not everybody will like you. Accept the fact.

5. You must not let people’s reaction to you determine your reaction to them.

6. When the love of our ideology overcomes our love for our biology,our civilization will collapse.

7. The moment religion becomes more about who is right or wrong, rather than about how to develop a dynamic relationship with our creator,it becomes a destructive force.

8. Any divinity that requires us to fight our fellow man to assert his supremacy,must be a weakling.

9. The fact that our God refuses to annihilate those that don’t serve him,proves that he values peaceful coexistence over religious correctness.

10. Once governance primary objective is self preservation,it becomes a destructive force in society.

11. Genuine power doesn’t proceed from our office,it comes from our service.

12. Any leadership that is willing to kill the led in other to lead,has lost the moral authority to lead.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

FASHION STATEMENTS & DRESS SENSE

dressing senceFashion is a big deal in our civilization. Beyond the fact that it is a thriving industry in several nations,it is also a means of sustenance for millions who are employed in it. Unfortunately in many scenarios,the sense has being lost in dress sense. In a bid to look cool, the statements we are trying to make isn’t quite clear. This article is my way of drawing our attention back to the essential purpose of dressing and how the beauty generated by it can make or mar our love life. Continue reading

4 WAYS TO HANDLE YOUR HATERS

i_love_haters-2360One of the keys to ending up small in life and destiny,is to only love those that love and only like those that like you. Those who succumb to this pitfall are bound to be insignificant in destiny. To matter colossally in life,you will have to interact effectively with several people who not only are not like you,but also do not like you or love you. This is the reality of life. To be outstanding in life,your circle of loving must be far larger than the circle of your liking. Love is a debt we owe to our fellow man,irrespective of whether they like our guts or not. To succeed at doing these, there are certain understandings that you must possess. In my writing today, I want to highlight some of those understandings, that will not only give you a smooth sailing with people, but it will also guarantee your safe landing with them. Continue reading

WHEN IDEOLOGY OVERCOMES BIOLOGY

In Abuja, Nigeria, a bomb goes off, killing over 78 people and wounding almost 200. In Kansas City, U.S.A, a gun man shot and killed a 69 year old man and his 14 year old grandson in a Jewish community campus. Minutes later, another 53 year old woman was shot dead while visiting her mother at Village Shalom retirement home. In Syria another report surfaces about the use of poisonous gas in the raging civil war. These are just a few of the many crimes against humanity ravaging every corner of our world today.  Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT 11: 12 VITAL LOVE INSIGHTS.

1. Those who dodge opportunities to serve are bound to miss opportunities to lead.

2. The starting point of becoming attractive is to take an anatomical inventory of your body.

3. Self confidence is a major component of attractiveness.

4. Your prayer shouldn’t be for God to upgrade your beauty,rather it is that God should connect you with the individual for whom you are their perfect definition of beauty.

5. The purpose of fashion is to compensate for our anatomical deficiencies.

6. Those who don’t know how to dress are committing attractional suicide.

7. You don’t choose what you wear,your body is to make that choice for you.

8. Unfortunately, it isn’t the best of ladies that get chosen,it’s the most attractive of them.

9. If you cannot capture their eyes,you might have lost their heart. The eyes affect the heart.

10. There is no point in sacrificing your attractiveness because of your spirituality. You can have both.

11. Attraction fuels passion,passion fuels our pursuits.

12. If you can’t get noticed,you can’t get chosen.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945