ONCE UPON A LOVE (2)

lovestoryYesterday we established the fact that love may not necessarily last forever. In the course of your lifetime, you may be saddled with the responsibility of reviving, re-kindling and reawakening love. This is our step by step process for that lofty objective to be accomplished. We have said that the key to recovery in love is remembrance. When you remember the good times you have had with your lover, you reawaken the feelings that accompanied those good times. The next step is… Continue reading

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ONCE UPON A LOVE

lovestoryThere is no greater tragedy than the tragedy of aborted love – a love that once was but is no more. True, not every love is worth saving but nothing is as painful as a genuine love that has failed to achieve it’s life long potential. No where is this malaise rampant than in the institution of marriage. Many married individuals who once were head over heels for each other now barely live together as total strangers to one another. In some extreme cases, they have even become arch enemies of each other. The love that could have lasted for their entire destinies,only now is a relic of ancient history, how sad. Continue reading

7 QUESTIONS EVERY LOVER MUST RESOLVE

question1. Even if my lover does not change; Am I prepared to love them the way they are for the rest of their life?

2. What single thing do I need to stop doing for my love life to work?

3. What exactly do I want from a person I call my lover?

4. If the solemn prayer “may you reap all you have sown” in love is prayed over you;CAN YOU SAY AMEN? WHY CAN’T YOU?

5. Can your feelings for this person stand the test of time,distance and abstinence?

6. What exactly makes you feel loved?

7. Who is the greatest lover you have met in your lifetime?

THE GREATEST IS LOVE.
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
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* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

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THE WRONGEST WAY TO SEEK FOR LOVE

no loveI have uncovered a fundamental flaw in the way many pursue love and it is that they pursue it through the avenue of pleasure. In fact in many minds love is synonymous to pleasure. It is true that one of the job descriptions of your lover is to please you ethically and responsibly, but those who take the idea too far usually end up in the alley and valley of pain and sorrow. There are five ways that people do this and let’s quickly address them today. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT (17): 12 STINGING LOVE TRUTHS

1. Love doesn’t have to be crazy,for it to be credible.

2. If you claim to be in love for no reason,you’re most likely bewitched. Love must be rational.

3. The love commitments we make that lasts are often born out of personal convictions not assumptions.

4. Pity has no merit in love.

5. Love must be intentional-a product of our personal decision for it to work.

6. For your love to work,it must become a daily discipline.

7. Love is not an illusion,it must be a calculated decision.

8. The demand for thinking lovers is the greatest need of the hour.

9. Love is most fruitful when it is rooted and grounded in knowledge

10. Love covers a multitude of sins,not all of them.

11. Love is more than a feeling,love is a skill.

12. The love skills you need to succeed in your romantic relationships,must have been developed in your non romantic relationships.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

MUST LOVE BE CRAZY?

crazy-loveThe words “I AM CRAZY ABOUT YOU” seem to be one of the most effective compliments that a person can offer their lover but must love be crazy? I believe somewhere in our human consciousness we entertain the idea that a love that just doesn’t make sense is more impressive than a love that does. I have had ladies tell me that they turned down the love proposal of a guy because they felt they were already too close. This betrays a notion in all of us that love has got to be spectacular and outrageous for us to go along. Today I want to question this hidden notion in all of us. Continue reading

MUST LOVE BE STUPID?

Love-is-Complicated_7522-lI have often said that the reason why many fail in love is because they suspend their heads while engaging their hearts. The heart alone is incapable of granting qualitative love outcomes. A new generation of thinking lovers must emerge. Someone asked me what I wanted my legacy to be, I answered that among other things, I would love to be remembered as the foremost love intellectual in my generation. If at the end of my days, I have made a generation think practically about what they call love, I would have been satisfied. This demand for thinking lovers is the greatest need of the hour. The following are some ways that stupidity is exhibited in love. Continue reading

7 QUESTIONS EVERY LOVER MUST ASK AND ANSWER

  1. questionIf sex is non existent will our love exist?
  2. If you could live your life all over again,would you choose the same person?
  3. If your partner behaves exactly like you,would you love them?
  4. What do I need to start or stop for our love to grow?
  5. Will my saying yes to this love proposal birth my destiny?
  6. Where is my love going?
  7. Is this person the best I can have? Or am I settling for what I think I can get?

THE GREATEST IS LOVE.
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

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AWAKEN THE LOVER WITHIN YOU

love allFinding true love is everyone’s desire, but it isn’t everyone’s experience. One of the reasons why we fail in our future love roles is because we failed to develop competence with the love opportunities of the past. Particularly in romantic relationships, few are able to sustain their love for each other beyond the initial honeymoon phase because they assume that love is a feeling. My friend love is more than a feeling,love is a skill. The feelings of love may fade but it is the skill of love that remains with you. When those love skills are exercised consistently, the feeling of love can be recreated over and over again. This is the key to the success of long tenured relationships. One must however understand that the love skills you need in romantic relationships, must have been developed in your non romantic relationships. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT (16): 12 BLATANT TRUTHS NONE CAN DENY

1. It is practically impossible to keep a man that doesn’t want to be kept.

2. No lady can keep a man that God is not keeping.

3. Preservation is more challenging than acquisition.

4. Lady, a man who is obsessed about not hurting God,won’t automatically hurt you. Likewise a man who is out to please the creator directly,will indirectly please you.

6. Most men have no defenses against a woman who understands them.

7. A cheating man is the greatest tragedy that can befall a well meaning woman.

8. Even marriages should be dissolved,when the threat of violence becomes a persistent reality.

9. The only way for an insecure man to be happy with his woman is for her to say nothing,do nothing and be nothing.

10. Every lady must understand that your man’s level of security will determine her scope of accomplishments.

11. When lying becomes a lover’s competence, that lover is most likely going to be a source of sorrow in future.

12. Love is the most influential force that drives a woman to do whatever she does.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE.
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

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