5 DIVIDENDS OF DIVORCE

marriageDivorce has consequences. We have established the fact that there may be certain conditions that necessitates having a divorce. We also must be quick to acknowledge that such a decision should only be arrived at after the full implications of our actions has been duly considered. Today we focus on certain undeniable effects that divorce can have both on us and the ones we love. Continue reading

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DIVORCE JUSTIFIED

divorce-malletI hate divorce. It is one of the most tragic experiences that can befall any marriage, particularly when it’s psychological impact on children are considered. However I have lived long enough to know that there are peculiar marital circumstances in which divorce is a credible solution. I know I will most likely be criticized by religious pundits for what I am going to say today, but religious correctness isn’t a higher priority to me than value for the individual. Continue reading

5 WAYS TO SET UP YOURSELF FOR DIVORCE

???It is no longer news to acknowledge that fifty percent of most marriages will end in divorce. On the African continent, where statistical incompetence has been our undoing, the figures may even be higher. This does not include the millions who are enduring the dissatisfaction of their union and holding on due to religious or societal pressures. Most married women even confess to holding on to their dead marriages only to protect the interest of their children. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(19): 12 PENETRATIVE LOVE TRUTHS

  1. Lack of character and integrity are the seeds of sorrow and tears in love.

  2. Accidents are bound to happen in life and love when our speed of progress exceeds our clarity of vision
  3. Most weeping lovers today are guilty of rash and rushed commitments.
  4. Don’t get it twisted,you can only love well,those whom you know well.
  5. Commitment is actually investment and every form of investment must be justified.
  6. The lover you settle for shouldn’t just desire you,they must deserve you
  7. Once the idea of autonomy and independence is pursued at the expense of accountability,tragedy is often the consequence.
  8. Life isn’t just mental or material,life is spiritual.
  9. You must settle for a religion that places the greatest value on human life and love.
  10. Once your spiritual cum religious commitments are made,you must then settle for individuals of a compatible spiritual orientation in love.
  11. Do your utmost best not to settle for less,where you could have had the best.
  12. Without a deep reverence for God and his judgmental prerogatives,most lovers will tend to do whatever they like to their partners without the fear of divine retribution.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE

Deji Olabode.

Love Dynamics Global.

Enthronement Assembly Lagos.

lovedynamix@gmail.com

@lovedynamix on twitter.

BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

LOVERS ALSO CRY

200564200-032All is well that ends well. Unfortunately, not every love experience will end well. In fact some love experiences are bound to end in tears. Another way to put it is that lovers also cry. Most of the tears however aren’t tears of joy. Most of it are tears of sorrow and regrets. The question we want to answer today is WHY THEY WEPT and HOW YOU WON’T WEEP. Continue reading

4 IDEAS THAT WILL KEEP YOUR LOVE LIFE ON A SPOT AS LONG AS YOU LIVE

stagnantGood ideas are the engine of progress in every civilization. Conversely, bad ideas are responsible for most of the stagnation that we experience in life, including our love lives. Today we unravel some toxic ideas that lovers can embrace to neutralize the progress of their relationships. Continue reading

4 IDEAS THAT WILL RUIN YOUR CHANCES OF FINDING A LOVER

find loveSomeone interestingly said that ideas rule the world. Ideas do not only rule the world it can determine our chances in love. Many are chronically single today because they subscribe to lethal ideas that has practically ruined their chances of finding a lover. Today we want to identify and isolate these ideas in other to boost our chances in love. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(18): 12 PREVAILING LOVE TRUTHS

1. The key to the recovery of love is remembrance.

2. Love is an action, sustained by actions and it can only be revived by actions.

3. Don’t wait until your lover’s reaction to you changes, before your action changes towards them. In reality actions must come before reactions and not the other way around.

4. Be realistic. What has been damaged over months and years cannot be perfectly restored over night.

5. Seeds sown on rocky grounds won’t yield a harvest. In love positive response is the sign of life and the ray of hope for recovery.

6. Do not confuse dying love with dead love. You revive the dying but you bury the dead.

7. There is no greater tragedy,than the tragedy of aborted love.

8. The direct preservation of your love memories is the indirect preservation of the feelings that accompanied those particular events.

9. Our actions today become our memories tomorrow.

10. Good memories are the leverage for the recovery of love.

11. Reliving the good memories of a dead love often reopens the wounds and the hurts of the past to the detriment of the health and the vitality of the grieving lover.

12. Investing in a dead love or lover is a pointless waste of your emotional resources. Let it go.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

ONCE UPON A LOVE (2)

lovestoryYesterday we established the fact that love may not necessarily last forever. In the course of your lifetime, you may be saddled with the responsibility of reviving, re-kindling and reawakening love. This is our step by step process for that lofty objective to be accomplished. We have said that the key to recovery in love is remembrance. When you remember the good times you have had with your lover, you reawaken the feelings that accompanied those good times. The next step is… Continue reading

ONCE UPON A LOVE

lovestoryThere is no greater tragedy than the tragedy of aborted love – a love that once was but is no more. True, not every love is worth saving but nothing is as painful as a genuine love that has failed to achieve it’s life long potential. No where is this malaise rampant than in the institution of marriage. Many married individuals who once were head over heels for each other now barely live together as total strangers to one another. In some extreme cases, they have even become arch enemies of each other. The love that could have lasted for their entire destinies,only now is a relic of ancient history, how sad. Continue reading