THE BEST OF LOVE DYNAMICS (7): I LOVE YOU BUT TERMS AND CONDITIONS APPLY.

Today, we come to the essence of our discussion over the last few weeks. We have isolated the various factors that won’t guarantee relationship success. We have dealt with the kind of relationships that are worth doing without. Today, we begin to deal with the knots and bolts of how to break a relationship honorably, should you ever need to do so.The first issue to deal with, if you are going to break a relationship honorably and fairly is to revisit how you started it. In most cases,how a relationship starts will always determine how it ends. If the foundation of a thing is faulty it will long affect the sustainability of that thing. This is why in dealing with relationship problems in counseling, I often ask the couple to do what we call at Love Dynamics Global, a GENESIS ANALYSIS of the relationship. Continue reading

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GOODBYE LOVE

Firing a lover is one of the hardest things to do in this life. Hard as this may be, some relationships deserve to be brought to an end when you consider the negative impact they have on us. Boys2Men, the contemporary R&B sensations of the 90’s got it right when they sang “its so hard to say goodbye to yesterday”. The fact however is that the price to pay for a happy tomorrow might be to say goodbye to yesterday. Continue reading

HOW TO GET A LOVE X-RAY

I must deeply appreciate all our readers for their remarkable commitment to the love dynamix blog. In the last one week alone, our readers soared with over 2500 new readers from about thirty nations. This would not have been possible without your consistent referral of family and friends to this blog. Indeed the global love revolution is under way and the nations of the earth are bound to be reformed. Thank you once again for your tireless partnership and multifaceted recommendation especially on the social networks. Continue reading

I LOVE YOU, BUT TERMS AND CONDITIONS APPLY

Today, we come to the essence of our discussion over the last few weeks. We have isolated the various factors that won’t guarantee relationship success. We have dealt with the kind of relationships that are worth doing without. Today, we begin to deal with the knots and bolts of how to break a relationship honorably, should you ever need to do so. Continue reading

IN LOVE, WHEN TRUST IS LOST, ALL IS LOST

Today, we begin to pull a deserved curtain over the issue of the key lessons I have learned from the first break up ever and how they apply to our love lives. Now we know that spirituality, good intentions and one-sided maturity are not carte blanche guarantees of relationship success. We also have seen why we should be ruthlessly decisive about the direction of our emotional lives. Continue reading

LOVE AND MATURITY

Our journey together began a few days ago, as we began to observe some vital love lessons from the first break up ever. We established the fact that both spirituality and good intentions are not enough to make love work. Yesterday we went further to discover that, there is a great need to be decisive in handling our love lives, especially if they weigh us down with toxic consequences. Continue reading

BE DECISIVE IN LOVE

We have been exploring six lessons I have learnt from the first break up ever. The first is that spirituality alone does not guarantee relationship success. The second is that good intentions alone won’t make your love life work. The third is that if you don’t decide the direction of your relationship, someone or something else will. Continue reading