HOW TO FUEL YOUR FEELINGS

If feelings aren’t appropriately fueled, they die. My mentor told us that the love it took to start the relationship is not necessarily the love that will see the relationship to the end of life. He said, everything in life gets depleted with use and would need to be replenished from time to time. Love is also not an exemption to this principle of renewal. Unfortunately, few know how to feed their feelings and replenish their love lives. Here are a few practical tips. Continue reading

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THE WISDOM IN HAVING A SINGLE LOVER

monogamyMaturity is realizing that, the fact that you can, doesn’t necessarily mean that you should. We all have the capacity for multiple love affairs in our connected world, but does that mean that we should have them? This inclination for multiple love affairs is all the more bolstered by the proliferation of mobile and social networking technologies. The real revolution of these technologies is not communication, as much as it is access. For the first time in a century, we can have unrestricted access to anyone, anywhere in the world with the capabilities of exchanging text, voice and images with them. This subtle access revolution has led to a global explosion of multiple love affairs. Continue reading

GREAT WEDDINGS vs GREAT MARRIAGES

mr-and-mrs-wooden-east-of-india-cut-out-word[1]I must confess we all love great weddings; the costumes, the flowers, the meals, the vows, the lights, the decorations, the music, the promise. All of these make getting married one of the most desirable ventures known to man. Almost everyone you meet has an ideal dream of what their wedding day should look like, feel like and be like. The question I have tried to answer over the years is, Does it take a great wedding to have a great marriage? Which should be our priority? Continue reading

HOW TO DEAL WITH COMPETITION IN LOVE (2)

competitionIf it is true that you can’t possibly be the only one interested in your partner and it is. How do you handle the people out there who might be most delighted to have the one you have? The first thing you must do is understand the various types of love competitors that exist. Each of them represent various stages in the evolution of the competitive love process. Each of the various type of competitors in love demand a different response from you. Continue reading