WHY SOME MEN CHEAT ON THEIR PARTNERS

7_excuses_for_him_cheating_after_marriageThe first question everyone who has been cheated upon by their partner asks is WHY. Why would you do this to me? The second question is HOW. How could you do this to me? I will try not to delve into the how just yet. However over the next two days I want to explore some major reasons why most that cheat do so. Bearing in mind that man is a rational animal, he most certainly has reasons for doing whatever he does.┬áIt is important for me to state that I am 100% against cheating, though I can understand why men cheat. Understanding the why of cheating is something every lover must be aware of, if you aren’t going to end up hurt. Continue reading

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WHY YOU MUST BE ATTRACTIVE

Attraction is important and very essential to the love process. Attraction always comes before experience. Who or what you fail to attract, you can not experience. Over the next few days I want to focus on the science of attraction. In a world where there are few love opportunities to go round,to not understand how to be attractive is to be left out of the love equations of life. Let’s share a few reasons why attraction is crucial to the love process. Continue reading

HOW I LOST MY VIRGINITY

lost-love-spells111Someone rightly said, life is best lived looking forward, but it is best understood looking backwards. Nothing just happens, there is a process to every fall. Those who view their mistakes as sudden inexplicable events are bound to wallow in their errors. However,those who probe their past mistakes for the causes of such errors are poised to access wisdom to enable them overcome future challenges. The following are a few insights I gleaned from looking back at the errors of my past. Continue reading

ONCE UPON A VIRGIN

Virgins might be scarce in our society but I fully believe they exist. Nothing sickens me like sexually promiscuous individuals who still insist on marrying virgins. I once read of a male actor who obviously wasn’t a virgin, insisting that the reason why he wasn’t married was that he was looking for a virgin to marry. I wanted to tell him to his face that, at the rate of his sexual promiscuity, no virgins will be left by the time he was ready to marry. It is practically unfair to desire what you are not in a partner. Continue reading

4 WAYS TO HANDLE LOVE’S ULTIMATE CHALLENGE.

imagesThe fact that love is complex, doesn’t mean it has to be complicated. What stops the complex from being complicated is scaling up our ability to manage complexity. As our love life intensifies, we will have to interact with so many diverse constituencies to keep our love life in equilibrium. Those who aren’t smart enough to juggle these competing priorities will have problems in love. Consider the following points as keys that will keep your love life from spinning out of order because of external pressure. Continue reading

WHAT MAKES A PERSON FEEL LOVED

article-new-thumbnail-ehow-images-a04-b9-ln-someone-feel-loved-800x800Love is not a mystery. The thrust of my writings has been to demystify the process of love to the point where, every human being can walk in love towards their neighbors and intimate lovers alike. In a world that is bombarded per second with a thousand definitions of love galvanized by both peers and the entertainment media,there is a need for the simplification of the love model. Why? People hate complexity. If a thing is too complex,many won’t even attempt it. Continue reading

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY

valentine24I initially thought of not blogging today to make room for us all to concentrate on the love of our lives. I however decided to pen a few thoughts to make clear my thoughts about such a remarkable day as this. It is obvious that so many people world over have an erroneous perspective about the day. Continue reading

YOU ARE DEFINITELY IN LOVE IF…

imagesCan one be in love without knowing it? The answer is a categorical YES. It is humbling for me to acknowledge that love can sneak up on us sometimes. I have in my teachings over the years made a strong distinction between real love(genuine and sincere love) and right love(accurate and ethical love). The fact that a love is real doesn’t necessarily mean that such love is right. In this article I am not concerning myself with the rightness of love but with the realness of it. Continue reading

HOW HIGH IS YOUR LOVE IQ?

Loving hard will do you no good if you are not loving smart. The major cause of love disappoints in our day is the human tendency to suspend our minds,while the heart is in full gear. Over the years, I have propagated the inadequacy of loving with the heart and might, without loving with our minds and souls. The new breed of smart lovers will insist on a brand of love that abounds in knowledge and judgment before they decide to let themselves go in love. Continue reading

WHERE HAS THIS LOVE DOCTOR AND APOSTLE BEEN?

I am not sure it’s appropriate for me to apologize for taking yesterday off blogging to honor my new born baby. I have always considered it a badge of honor to live one’s message. It just didn’t seem love appropriate for me to spend the day tinkering with technological devices, when the love of my life was enduring labor pains. The 40,000 of you, who have followed my over 100 love posts, from about 80 nations, shouldn’t be surprised I made such a love oriented choice. Continue reading