THE BEST OF LOVE DYNAMICS (5): HOW TO KNOW IF SOMEONE IS CHEATING ON YOU.

The demise of loyalty is the tragedy of love. Months ago I postulated that there is a fundamental law of exclusivity to love,which states that you cannot genuinely be in love with more than one person. When we claim to be in love with more than one person,one is genuinely loved,while the other or others are objects of our lusts. One is genuinely loved, while the others are being emotionally exploited. One is loved,while the others are hated. If you find yourself in such a multiple love scenario,you must be objective about which one of the above you are and act decisively. Today we want to reveal some crucial warning signs that you are being cheated upon by another. They are… Continue reading

THE BEST OF LOVE DYNAMICS (11): WHY SOME LADIES CHEAT ON THEIR SPOUSES

sb10064861z-001Yesterday, I gave a hint that ladies rationale for cheating are quite different from that of men. Every man must take time to understand the compelling factors that could make a lady violate the boundaries of her commitment to him. He must then avoid those conditions like a plague in his relationship with her so as to give their love life the much needed stability. Here are some of those reasons. Continue reading

WHY SOME LADIES CHEAT ON THEIR SPOUSE

sb10064861z-001Yesterday I gave a hint that ladies rationale for cheating are quite different from that of men. Every man must take time to understand the compelling factors that could make a lady violate the boundaries of her commitment to him. He must then avoid those conditions like a plague in his relationship with her so as to give their love life the much needed stability. Here are some of those reasons. Continue reading

WHY SOME MEN CHEAT ON THEIR PARTNERS

7_excuses_for_him_cheating_after_marriageThe first question everyone who has been cheated upon by their partner asks is WHY. Why would you do this to me? The second question is HOW. How could you do this to me? I will try not to delve into the how just yet. However over the next two days I want to explore some major reasons why most that cheat do so. Bearing in mind that man is a rational animal, he most certainly has reasons for doing whatever he does. It is important for me to state that I am 100% against cheating, though I can understand why men cheat. Understanding the why of cheating is something every lover must be aware of, if you aren’t going to end up hurt. Continue reading

HOW TO DEAL WITH SOMEONE WHO IS CHEATING ON YOU

21-marriedmenWe all subconsciously long for exclusivity in love,but realistically not everyone of us will enjoy that privilege. This isn’t a curse but a fact based upon fallen human nature. It is true that we can minimize the chances of being cheated upon by choosing lovers who are of stellar integrity, but what happens to those who find out that someone they genuinely love has betrayed them? This is the essence of today’s article. There are five distinct phases everyone who is being cheated upon will go through. Let’s deal with them. Continue reading

HOW TO KNOW SOMEONE IS CHEATING ON YOU

extra-realtionThe demise of loyalty is the tragedy of love. Months ago I postulated that there is a fundamental law of exclusivity to love,which states that you cannot genuinely be in love with more than one person. When we claim to be in love with more than one person,one is genuinely loved,while the other or others are objects of our lusts. One is genuinely loved, while the others are being emotionally exploited. One is loved,while the others are hated. If you find yourself in such a multiple love scenario,you must be objective about which one of the above you are and act decisively. Today we want to reveal some crucial warning signs that you are being cheated upon by another. They are… Continue reading