WHERE DID ALL MY LOVE GO?

1386629840276Love evaporates if proper care is not taken. Nothing is more common than the ex lovers who now hate themselves with a higher degree of negative passion. When I attend weddings, I am usually very pensive because, who can tell if this newly wed couple will join the growing group of failed marriages that litter the relational streets of our society. How can we predict that the young passionate lovers who can hardly get their hands off each other won’t be vicious enemies down the road? To tame the rate of the evaporation of love,the evaporating factors must be identified and deliberately curtailed. Continue reading

MY BIGGEST LOVE MISTAKES

5-areas-you-might-accidentally-commit-a-mistake-this-yearSomeone rightly said, life is best lived looking forward but it is best understood looking backwards. In other to understand why a person is the way they are, you might have to understand where they are coming from. To this end I intend to be a bit personal and transparent about certain love decisions I made and how they played out in life for me. Continue reading

CAN LOVE EXIST FROM A DISTANCE? (2)

Yesterday, we established companionship as a vital ingredient of a perfect love environment. We began to navigate the complex waters of long distance relationships. We made the fact clear that real love finds a way to keep in touch. Today, I want to give a few potent guidelines for managing long distance relationships. Continue reading

THE 4 VITAL SIGNS OF DYING LOVE

Yesterday, we began to explore what a love x-ray would look like, as we shared some strategic questions that will help you measure the validity of your relationship before giving up on it. We established that we all must learn how to ask positional, oppositional or confrontational and operational questions of ourselves as well as our partners before shutting the door of love on them. Continue reading

HOW DARE YOU CALL THIS LOVE?

It is time for us to hit the nail on the head. Over the week I want to openly deal with the subject of “RELATIONSHIPS WORTH BREAKING”. Last week I established the fact that not every relationship is worth saving. Some are worth fighting for while others are best left to drown for the sake of your ultimate happiness and fulfillment. Continue reading