THE BEST OF LOVE DYNAMICS (4): HOW TO KEEP YOUR LADY

It is one thing to have a lady. It is something else entirely to keep her. The longer you live, you will discover that keeping what you have is by far more difficult than its acquisition. Though commitment comes more naturally for a woman than it does for a man, the men who take a woman’s commitment for granted are soon shocked to realize that she could be seized from his grasp never to return again. Today we turn to what a man needs to do to keep his woman. Continue reading

THE BEST OF LOVE DYNAMICS (10): 4 VITAL SIGNS OF DYING LOVE

UNDYING-LOVEYesterday, we began to explore what a love x-ray would look like, as we shared some strategic questions that will help you measure the validity of your relationship before giving up on it. We established that we all must learn how to ask positional, oppositional or confrontational and operational questions of ourselves as well as our partners before shutting the door of love on them.Today, we want to go a little bit deeper on the subject of love x-rays as we consider the vital signs of a dying relationship. When conducting any test, knowing what to look out for is as important as knowing what to do. In other words, after knowing how to perform a love x-ray the next most important thing is to know how to accurately interpret the results of the test. It is the accurate interpretation of the results that fuels qualitative decision making. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(20): 12 CLASSIC LOVE CONCEPTS YOU NEED TO KNOW

  1. Marriage is one thing that is best gotten right, the first time one attempts it.

  2. Should you attempt future relationships while harboring past hurts, such attempts are bound to fail.
  3. If you decide to get married without believing in the idea of marriage, it won’t work.
  4. Being divorced, one can not take up the job for two and not feel the pressure of it.
  5. Coping with divorce requires more hard work than it even takes to make a good marriage work.
  6. Divorce isn’t something you do just because you want it. It should only be embarked upon because you have to do it.
  7. The decision for divorce should be taken slowly and painstakingly, after exhausting every possible avenue of making your marriage work.
  8. When an adulterous marriage becomes a threat to your health and well being,it is logical to leave.
  9. We shouldn’t have to loose our lives in other to save our marriages.
  10. When our human relationships become a threat to our divine relationship,we ought to rethink them.
  11. More tragic than the annulment of a marriage, are those who choose to live in an internal state of divorce from their partners, while maintaining the external facade of a working marriage.
  12. If half of the effort expended on preparing for weddings is invested in preparing the couples for marriage psychologically and spiritually, most marriages will work.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE

Deji Olabode.

Love Dynamics Global.

Enthronement Assembly Lagos.

lovedynamix@gmail.com

@lovedynamix on twitter.

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* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

5 WAYS TO SET UP YOURSELF FOR DIVORCE

???It is no longer news to acknowledge that fifty percent of most marriages will end in divorce. On the African continent, where statistical incompetence has been our undoing, the figures may even be higher. This does not include the millions who are enduring the dissatisfaction of their union and holding on due to religious or societal pressures. Most married women even confess to holding on to their dead marriages only to protect the interest of their children. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(19): 12 PENETRATIVE LOVE TRUTHS

  1. Lack of character and integrity are the seeds of sorrow and tears in love.

  2. Accidents are bound to happen in life and love when our speed of progress exceeds our clarity of vision
  3. Most weeping lovers today are guilty of rash and rushed commitments.
  4. Don’t get it twisted,you can only love well,those whom you know well.
  5. Commitment is actually investment and every form of investment must be justified.
  6. The lover you settle for shouldn’t just desire you,they must deserve you
  7. Once the idea of autonomy and independence is pursued at the expense of accountability,tragedy is often the consequence.
  8. Life isn’t just mental or material,life is spiritual.
  9. You must settle for a religion that places the greatest value on human life and love.
  10. Once your spiritual cum religious commitments are made,you must then settle for individuals of a compatible spiritual orientation in love.
  11. Do your utmost best not to settle for less,where you could have had the best.
  12. Without a deep reverence for God and his judgmental prerogatives,most lovers will tend to do whatever they like to their partners without the fear of divine retribution.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE

Deji Olabode.

Love Dynamics Global.

Enthronement Assembly Lagos.

lovedynamix@gmail.com

@lovedynamix on twitter.

BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

4 IDEAS THAT WILL RUIN YOUR CHANCES OF FINDING A LOVER

find loveSomeone interestingly said that ideas rule the world. Ideas do not only rule the world it can determine our chances in love. Many are chronically single today because they subscribe to lethal ideas that has practically ruined their chances of finding a lover. Today we want to identify and isolate these ideas in other to boost our chances in love. Continue reading

ONCE UPON A LOVE (2)

lovestoryYesterday we established the fact that love may not necessarily last forever. In the course of your lifetime, you may be saddled with the responsibility of reviving, re-kindling and reawakening love. This is our step by step process for that lofty objective to be accomplished. We have said that the key to recovery in love is remembrance. When you remember the good times you have had with your lover, you reawaken the feelings that accompanied those good times. The next step is… Continue reading

ONCE UPON A LOVE

lovestoryThere is no greater tragedy than the tragedy of aborted love – a love that once was but is no more. True, not every love is worth saving but nothing is as painful as a genuine love that has failed to achieve it’s life long potential. No where is this malaise rampant than in the institution of marriage. Many married individuals who once were head over heels for each other now barely live together as total strangers to one another. In some extreme cases, they have even become arch enemies of each other. The love that could have lasted for their entire destinies,only now is a relic of ancient history, how sad. Continue reading

7 QUESTIONS EVERY LOVER MUST RESOLVE

question1. Even if my lover does not change; Am I prepared to love them the way they are for the rest of their life?

2. What single thing do I need to stop doing for my love life to work?

3. What exactly do I want from a person I call my lover?

4. If the solemn prayer “may you reap all you have sown” in love is prayed over you;CAN YOU SAY AMEN? WHY CAN’T YOU?

5. Can your feelings for this person stand the test of time,distance and abstinence?

6. What exactly makes you feel loved?

7. Who is the greatest lover you have met in your lifetime?

THE GREATEST IS LOVE.
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

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THE WRONGEST WAY TO SEEK FOR LOVE

no loveI have uncovered a fundamental flaw in the way many pursue love and it is that they pursue it through the avenue of pleasure. In fact in many minds love is synonymous to pleasure. It is true that one of the job descriptions of your lover is to please you ethically and responsibly, but those who take the idea too far usually end up in the alley and valley of pain and sorrow. There are five ways that people do this and let’s quickly address them today. Continue reading