THE BEST OF LOVE DYNAMICS (7): I LOVE YOU BUT TERMS AND CONDITIONS APPLY.

Today, we come to the essence of our discussion over the last few weeks. We have isolated the various factors that won’t guarantee relationship success. We have dealt with the kind of relationships that are worth doing without. Today, we begin to deal with the knots and bolts of how to break a relationship honorably, should you ever need to do so.The first issue to deal with, if you are going to break a relationship honorably and fairly is to revisit how you started it. In most cases,how a relationship starts will always determine how it ends. If the foundation of a thing is faulty it will long affect the sustainability of that thing. This is why in dealing with relationship problems in counseling, I often ask the couple to do what we call at Love Dynamics Global, a GENESIS ANALYSIS of the relationship. Continue reading

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LOVE ON POINT(19): 12 PENETRATIVE LOVE TRUTHS

  1. Lack of character and integrity are the seeds of sorrow and tears in love.

  2. Accidents are bound to happen in life and love when our speed of progress exceeds our clarity of vision
  3. Most weeping lovers today are guilty of rash and rushed commitments.
  4. Don’t get it twisted,you can only love well,those whom you know well.
  5. Commitment is actually investment and every form of investment must be justified.
  6. The lover you settle for shouldn’t just desire you,they must deserve you
  7. Once the idea of autonomy and independence is pursued at the expense of accountability,tragedy is often the consequence.
  8. Life isn’t just mental or material,life is spiritual.
  9. You must settle for a religion that places the greatest value on human life and love.
  10. Once your spiritual cum religious commitments are made,you must then settle for individuals of a compatible spiritual orientation in love.
  11. Do your utmost best not to settle for less,where you could have had the best.
  12. Without a deep reverence for God and his judgmental prerogatives,most lovers will tend to do whatever they like to their partners without the fear of divine retribution.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE

Deji Olabode.

Love Dynamics Global.

Enthronement Assembly Lagos.

lovedynamix@gmail.com

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LOVERS ALSO CRY

200564200-032All is well that ends well. Unfortunately, not every love experience will end well. In fact some love experiences are bound to end in tears. Another way to put it is that lovers also cry. Most of the tears however aren’t tears of joy. Most of it are tears of sorrow and regrets. The question we want to answer today is WHY THEY WEPT and HOW YOU WON’T WEEP. Continue reading

4 IDEAS THAT WILL KEEP YOUR LOVE LIFE ON A SPOT AS LONG AS YOU LIVE

stagnantGood ideas are the engine of progress in every civilization. Conversely, bad ideas are responsible for most of the stagnation that we experience in life, including our love lives. Today we unravel some toxic ideas that lovers can embrace to neutralize the progress of their relationships. Continue reading

HOW TO KEEP YOUR MAN

7e0d9e01fd1f4fd48dbe4152011f4721Nothing is as painful as loosing someone you love to another. Countless hearts have been broken by this very factor. This is all the more complex, when you are dealing with men because most men are emotional democrats. By this I mean that most men put their love at the disposal of multiple ladies. Today I want to share some practical insights for ladies who want to keep their man. Continue reading

3 WAYS TO INSURE YOUR LOVE LIFE

InsureYourLoveLogoLove for me is not enough. If you have been around a while, you can testify that a person‘s love for you is not all it takes for a relationship to work. The irony of love is that some of the people who we claim to love the most may not necessarily be the ones we end up with in life. I am talking today about how to insure your love life. The essence of insurance is assurance. Is your love life insured? Is the love that person claims to have for you insured? Love is a very risky business. Continue reading

WHEN IDEOLOGY OVERCOMES BIOLOGY

In Abuja, Nigeria, a bomb goes off, killing over 78 people and wounding almost 200. In Kansas City, U.S.A, a gun man shot and killed a 69 year old man and his 14 year old grandson in a Jewish community campus. Minutes later, another 53 year old woman was shot dead while visiting her mother at Village Shalom retirement home. In Syria another report surfaces about the use of poisonous gas in the raging civil war. These are just a few of the many crimes against humanity ravaging every corner of our world today.  Continue reading

HOW TO BE ATTRACTIVE

Everyone is attractive in their own way, but not everyone knows how to make the most of the body they have been given by the creator. Today we intend to cover some practical tips that will enhance your attractiveness in a love scenario. Understanding how to be attractive, and applying that understanding will greatly enhance your chances at finding and maintaining your lover. Continue reading

STRUCTURING YOUR ROMANCE

Your love life needs structure and order. The heart aches that many claim to experience is primarily because their love lives are out of order. In many people’s lives the emotional has been given a place it should not have. There is an appropriate time for everything including love. Once we get the time, place, person and priority of love all mixed up, there are bound to be problem. One thing must come before another. Consider the following as a step by step analysis of the protocol of love. If your love life follows this order and structure, it is most likely to succeed. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT (3): 12 RADICAL LOVE CONCEPTS THAT CHANGED MY LIFE

  1. Lady, if your husband can no longer lust after you, you have lost him

  2. When you fulfill the demands of love consciously, you would have fulfilled the demands of the law unconsciously
  3. A great wedding simply takes good organization, but a great marriage will take good harmonization of the couples involved
  4. It doesn’t take a great wedding to have a great marriage
  5. Marriage is a calling to sex
  6. Anything that can save or boost your energy can save and boost your marriage
  7. There is no point in being in love with someone who doesn’t believe in love
  8. Please investigate before you invest
  9. The fact that they disappointed you, simply means they weren’t appointed for you
  10. Character is acting right, even when you are feeling wrong
  11. The irony of life is that, you can’t get back at someone without going back yourself. Let it go
  12. To push for love without friendship is lust in disguise

THE GREATEST IS LOVE