LOVE ON POINT(8): 12 RADICAL IDEAS FOR CONTEMPORARY LOVERS.

1. For your love to live,your ego has to die.

2. It is wisdom to clarify the when of your marriage before beginning your courtship.

3. The primal solutions to sexual promiscuity are long friendships,short courtships and early marriages.

4. Condoms won’t protect you from heartbreak.

5. It is folly to value the protection of your genitals over the protection of your heart and mind.

6. Condoms won’t protect you from expiration.

7. Condoms won’t protect you from being replaced.

8. The violation of our personal consciences is what produces guilt,and guilt is the mother of low self esteem.

9. To succeed in love,you must have made abstinence a competence.

10. Abstinence can not be learned in marriage,it is better developed during courtship.

11. Humans are addicted to simplicity and averse to complexity

12. It is really difficult to please anybody who doesn’t know what pleases them.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
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* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

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HOW TO BE A FAILURE IN LOVE

???Life is a test and love is a test as well. How well you perform in the tests that life gives you, will determine the quality of success you command. One of the biggest love tests you will have to pass to succeed in love is called the ABSTINENCE TEST. Abstinence isn’t a popular word in our sexually permissive society, but hopefully after reading this article you will realize that without a foundation of abstinence, our love lives will fail to fulfill its potential. Our culture considers it cool for people who aren’t maritally committed to be sexually committed. What they fail to realize is that this lack of sexual discipline and abstinence is costing us qualitative love. The problem with giving in to your unmarried lover’s several sexual demands is that it destroys their capacity for delayed sexual gratification. Without abstinence, our partners are susceptible to the many sexual temptations that are undermining both marriages and courtships alike. If you erroneously train your partner to always have their way with you sexually, in spite of your lack of marriage, don’t be surprised when they can’t deny themselves for you when abstinence is needed the most. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(7): 12 POTENT KEYS FOR CONTEMPORARY LOVERS

1. What stops the complex from becoming the complicated is scaling up our personal ability to manage complexity.

2. The fact that you are called to love everybody, does not mean you are called to please everybody.

3.The limited nature of our resources,calls for the development of strategic priorities in the allocation of those resources.

4. The destiny of secrecy is exposure. If you have to hide it,it is best not to do it.

5. Accountability is not the willingness to explain your actions,it is the willingness to explain your intentions.

6. Everyone you meet in life represents a need,a seed and a deed.

7. The spiritual must always come before the emotional.

8. The personal must always come before the emotional.

9. If there is no me, there can be no us.

10. No lover,is worth loosing yourself over

11. If you link your success to your presence,your impact will be limited,because your presence is limited.

12. Pride is the burial ground of leadership.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE.
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

THE WISDOM IN HAVING A SINGLE LOVER

monogamyMaturity is realizing that, the fact that you can, doesn’t necessarily mean that you should. We all have the capacity for multiple love affairs in our connected world, but does that mean that we should have them? This inclination for multiple love affairs is all the more bolstered by the proliferation of mobile and social networking technologies. The real revolution of these technologies is not communication, as much as it is access. For the first time in a century, we can have unrestricted access to anyone, anywhere in the world with the capabilities of exchanging text, voice and images with them. This subtle access revolution has led to a global explosion of multiple love affairs. Continue reading

4 WAYS TO LOVE YOURSELF

keep-calm-and-love-yourself-579No one can love you like you, because no one knows you like you. Today we want to consider some practical ways to do so. Learning to love yourself will set a remarkable standard for anyone coming into your life to live up to. Without this personal love standard in place, you run the risk of being abused, misused and undermined in your love endeavors. Here they are. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT (4): STRIKING LOVE INSIGHTS FOR TRENDY LOVERS

  1. The essence of pairing is sharing.

  2. It is wiser to base your relationship on a common future, rather than a common past.
  3. Maturity is not the ability to deny reality,it is the ability to confront it.
  4. Denying reality can never nullify reality.
  5. Basing your future with someone on the probability of their change,rather than on the certainty of their change,is at best emotional gambling.
  6. I will rather risk the possibility of finding someone good in future,than live with the certainty of having someone bad in the present.
  7. Truth is the seed of trust.
  8. A sure way to know you have been deceived 100%, is when you claim to trust a human being 100%.
  9. Never conform to whatever you have not confirmed.
  10. To understand success,you have to be a student of failure.
  11. Your voice might give you the right to speak,but only your results give you the right to be heard.
  12. Great relationships are not based upon individual reluctance,they are based on mutual acceptance.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE

Deji Olabode

Love Dynamics Global.

Enthronement Assembly Lagos.

lovedynamix@gmail.com

@lovedynamix on twitter.

BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

MY BIGGEST LOVE MISTAKES

5-areas-you-might-accidentally-commit-a-mistake-this-yearSomeone rightly said, life is best lived looking forward but it is best understood looking backwards. In other to understand why a person is the way they are, you might have to understand where they are coming from. To this end I intend to be a bit personal and transparent about certain love decisions I made and how they played out in life for me. Continue reading

I LOVE YOU, BUT TERMS AND CONDITIONS APPLY (2)

Yesterday, we established the fact that love comes at a price. The price of love we said, are the hidden expectations,terms and conditions that each lover possesses. We made it clear that such terms and conditions must be made known upfront by each couple before commitment is made to one another. This will avoid the relationship dying an untimely death as a result of skyrocketing expectations. Today we intend to be more specific as to what some of these terms should be. Continue reading

A LOVE WORTH DUMPING

We started yesterday on the subject of 8 types of relationships worth breaking. We made it clear that no one has to put up with coercive love circumstances in life. Life is too short to be spent in relationships with people who don’t want to be with you. Today we want to explore the subject of ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS. Continue reading

A LOVE THAT WORKS

I must take time to appreciate our global audience for aggressively recommending this blog to their friends and loved ones. This is evidenced by the fact that yesterday alone the numerical value of our viewers increased by over 100%. What is more remarkable is the global nature of our divers audience. All of these further confirms to me that the global love revolution is well under way. I sure want to guarantee you that we won’t stop until the knowledge of “How love works” becomes as ubiquitous as oxygen among the citizens of the earth. Once again I say a big thank you for being a part of this love revolution. Continue reading