THE BEST OF LOVE DYNAMICS (8): 5 THINGS THAT LOVEMAKING MEANS TO A WOMAN.

It is true that men and women are sexual creatures. However, their motives and meanings for sex are as divergent as the day and the night. The biggest mistake a man can therefore make is to assume that she is into sex for the same reason he is into it. These contrasting objectives where sex is concerned for both sexes is what makes sexual fulfillment an elusive mystery for many. Continue reading

4 THINGS EVERY VIRGIN IS MISSING OUT ON

No doubt, every virgin is missing out on some things. Where we differ is on the specifics of what they are missing out on. Our contemporary society is quick to taunt virgins for missing out on the fun of sex. Interesting as this may sound,I have come to discover that there are other things virgins miss out on,that our depraved world fails to acknowledge. Today we want to unravel those other things, being missed by virgins, and why fun alone cannot be the primary motive of sexual engagement. Continue reading

THE VALUE OF VIRGINITY

There is dignity and nobility in virginity. This is an undebatable fact. Owing to the fact that virgins seem to be the minority in our society,there is need to assert the value and virtue of this minority clearly in the minds of people. The point in doing this is not to make non virgins feel guilty,not at all. The essence is to enable our society place appropriate value on these individuals,who are vibrant voices of morality in our time. You may never be called to love a virgin,but we can all at least respect the value that they represent. Continue reading

5 THINGS THAT LOVEMAKING MEANS TO A WOMAN

imagesIt is true that men and women are sexual creatures. However, their motives and meanings for sex are as divergent as the day and the night. The biggest mistake a man can therefore make is to assume that she is into sex for the same reason he is into it. These contrasting objectives where sex is concerned for both sexes is what makes sexual fulfillment an elusive mystery for many. Continue reading

WHEN YOUR SEXUAL BRAKE FAILS, DO THESE

The most dangerous thing that can happen to a human being is indulgence in unrestrained sexual intercourse. This addiction to sexual pleasure has been a major destructive factor in individuals as well as societies. From the biblical Sodom and Gomorrah to the ancient Roman empire, from Solomon to the revered Fela Anikulapo kuti. Once we make up our minds to be controlled by our sexual impulses, devastation awaits us. It is normal for us to have sexual desires, but it is destructive for our sexual desires to have us. Just like a car without brakes is bound to have terrible accidents, a person without sexual brakes is bound to have several accidents in life. Sexual power is dangerous without control. Continue reading

SEXUAL ACCOUNTANCY

It is common for many who get sexually involved to do so motivated by the multidimensional pleasures of the sexual experience. What we seldom consider are the pressures that premarital and extramarital sex introduce into the equation of our lives. While many look at the upside of such sexual escapades, many are wrecked by the downside of their sexual activities. Continue reading

I LOVE YOU, BUT TERMS AND CONDITIONS APPLY (2)

Yesterday, we established the fact that love comes at a price. The price of love we said, are the hidden expectations,terms and conditions that each lover possesses. We made it clear that such terms and conditions must be made known upfront by each couple before commitment is made to one another. This will avoid the relationship dying an untimely death as a result of skyrocketing expectations. Today we intend to be more specific as to what some of these terms should be. Continue reading