LOVE ON POINT(20): 12 CLASSIC LOVE CONCEPTS YOU NEED TO KNOW

  1. Marriage is one thing that is best gotten right, the first time one attempts it.

  2. Should you attempt future relationships while harboring past hurts, such attempts are bound to fail.
  3. If you decide to get married without believing in the idea of marriage, it won’t work.
  4. Being divorced, one can not take up the job for two and not feel the pressure of it.
  5. Coping with divorce requires more hard work than it even takes to make a good marriage work.
  6. Divorce isn’t something you do just because you want it. It should only be embarked upon because you have to do it.
  7. The decision for divorce should be taken slowly and painstakingly, after exhausting every possible avenue of making your marriage work.
  8. When an adulterous marriage becomes a threat to your health and well being,it is logical to leave.
  9. We shouldn’t have to loose our lives in other to save our marriages.
  10. When our human relationships become a threat to our divine relationship,we ought to rethink them.
  11. More tragic than the annulment of a marriage, are those who choose to live in an internal state of divorce from their partners, while maintaining the external facade of a working marriage.
  12. If half of the effort expended on preparing for weddings is invested in preparing the couples for marriage psychologically and spiritually, most marriages will work.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE

Deji Olabode.

Love Dynamics Global.

Enthronement Assembly Lagos.

lovedynamix@gmail.com

@lovedynamix on twitter.

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WHY SOME MEN CHEAT ON THEIR PARTNERS

7_excuses_for_him_cheating_after_marriageThe first question everyone who has been cheated upon by their partner asks is WHY. Why would you do this to me? The second question is HOW. How could you do this to me? I will try not to delve into the how just yet. However over the next two days I want to explore some major reasons why most that cheat do so. Bearing in mind that man is a rational animal, he most certainly has reasons for doing whatever he does.┬áIt is important for me to state that I am 100% against cheating, though I can understand why men cheat. Understanding the why of cheating is something every lover must be aware of, if you aren’t going to end up hurt. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(14); 12 IRREVOCABLE LOVE TRUTHS

1. If you don’t know how to manage your in laws gracefully,you may soon be made an outlaw.

2. The worst thing you can do for your love life is to marry into your parents home.

3. It is laudable for your parents to finance your wedding,but it will be devastating for them to finance your marriage.

4. One sign that you haven’t left your past psychologically is the tendency to compare people in your present, with the people in your past.

5. Leaving must come before cleaving. In fact leaving is what creates room for proper cleaving.

6. The best way of doing a thing is the next.

7. You must be married to principles,not to methods.

8. If you react to everything you hear about your lover,you are bound to loose them.

9. Every information is only as credible as it’s source.

10. The appreciation of your inlaws is the beginning of wisdom for any long term relationship

11. Distance is the primary test of character

12. Anyone who cannot accept your past does not belong in your future.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

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4 WAYS TO HANDLE YOUR HATERS

i_love_haters-2360One of the keys to ending up small in life and destiny,is to only love those that love and only like those that like you. Those who succumb to this pitfall are bound to be insignificant in destiny. To matter colossally in life,you will have to interact effectively with several people who not only are not like you,but also do not like you or love you. This is the reality of life. To be outstanding in life,your circle of loving must be far larger than the circle of your liking. Love is a debt we owe to our fellow man,irrespective of whether they like our guts or not. To succeed at doing these, there are certain understandings that you must possess. In my writing today, I want to highlight some of those understandings, that will not only give you a smooth sailing with people, but it will also guarantee your safe landing with them. Continue reading

THE METAMORPHOSIS OF LOVE

love-love-31236730-1280-800Real love is never sudden in nature. It always has a process and a procedure. Those who ignore the valid process of love and favor a short cut to their destination in love always end up creating a problem rather than a solution. The microwave approach to love never works. This of course is why I do not believe in love at first sight. Most of such claims are actually lust at first sight. So today let’s attempt to unveil the step by step process that all lasting loves pass through. Continue reading

I BELIEVE IN MARRIAGE

87887258_oMarriage is fast loosing it’s popularity in several postmodern societies. In some other societies, a gruesome distortion of this glorious institution is taking place as issues like same sex marriages seem to be taking the centre stage. In this,animals seem to be showing a more advanced sense of judgment than the political elite of certain nations,by reason of the animals pursuit of opposite sex unions rather than same sex unions. Though I am of the opinion that no individual should be ostracized on the grounds of their sexual orientation, a strong sense of right and wrong needs to be fostered in our societies for sexual cum social anarchy not to take us over. Continue reading

HOW TO DIE SINGLE (2)

Yesterday, we established the fact that though a thriving relationship might be everyone’s desire, it may not be everyone’s experience. One of the reasons is because of extreme social isolation and the second reason is having an extremely cantankerous personality. Those who fall into this category must deliberately work at overcoming such tendencies so as to attract credible partners into their lives. Continue reading

HOW TO DIE SINGLE

singleMany people desire companionship but few know how to position themselves strategically for companionship. It is one thing to have a desire, it is another thing entirely for us to fulfill the criteria for those desires to come to pass. Except for those born with an inherent gift of celibacy, every human being desires to be united in love someday with someone of like minds, unfortunately this may not be everyone’s experience. Today I want to consider some ways by which many position themselves unknowingly for life long singleness. Continue reading

WHY RELATIONSHIPS?

theme_relationshipsAll humans are social creatures by design. From the point at which the creator remarked that “it is not good for man to be alone”,we have woken up to our inherent need for companionship. Due to relationship disappointments at times,we may try to deny this need externally, but the gnawing void and loneliness internally, persistently reminds us that we were made for relationship with one another. Continue reading

CAN LOVE EXIST FROM A DISTANCE? (2)

Yesterday, we established companionship as a vital ingredient of a perfect love environment. We began to navigate the complex waters of long distance relationships. We made the fact clear that real love finds a way to keep in touch. Today, I want to give a few potent guidelines for managing long distance relationships. Continue reading