HOW HIGH IS YOUR LOVE IQ?

Loving hard will do you no good if you are not loving smart. The major cause of love disappoints in our day is the human tendency to suspend our minds,while the heart is in full gear. Over the years, I have propagated the inadequacy of loving with the heart and might, without loving with our minds and souls. The new breed of smart lovers will insist on a brand of love that abounds in knowledge and judgment before they decide to let themselves go in love. Continue reading

HEARTBREAK MOTEL (WHY YOU ARE HEARTBROKEN)

heartbreak009Heartbreaks are not a mystery. In fact, they are very predictable in nature. This is one of the major problems plaguing the love scene today. What however amazes me is how surprised people seem to be, when the inevitable happens to them emotionally. I am fully persuaded that the outcomes of our relationships can be predicted from the scratch. There is a way that you can set up yourself for heartbreak from the very start of a relationship. I intend to demistify the heartbreak process as much as possible in this writing, so that the choice will be left to you,whether to be heartbroken or not. Continue reading

CAN LOVE EXIST FROM A DISTANCE? (2)

Yesterday, we established companionship as a vital ingredient of a perfect love environment. We began to navigate the complex waters of long distance relationships. We made the fact clear that real love finds a way to keep in touch. Today, I want to give a few potent guidelines for managing long distance relationships. Continue reading