WHY CERTAIN MARRIAGES FAIL

marriageIt is no longer news to acknowledge the fact that more than 50% of marriages will end up in divorce. Interestingly this statistic doesn’t include the many who choose to remain in their marriages in spite of their lack of fulfillment and unhappiness with their homes. So why is this glorious institution in a state of ruins today? I believe that the reasons are not far fetched. A few of such reasons will be addressed today and I intend to be as candid as possible. Continue reading

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KNOWING ME, LOVING YOU

Love is not self existent. Love requires certain foundations to flourish. One of those foundations is what we talked about yesterday, friendship. A second foundation is self awareness. This is the essence of our contemplation today. A lot of people jump from relationship to relationship without a fundamental understanding of their identity. Little wonder why such relationships fail. I personally made this mistake in my early years in the university. I jumped into a five year relationship without an inherent understanding of who I was or where I was going. The outcome was catastrophic. Continue reading

HOW TO WIN YOUR LOVER’S HEART COMPLETELY (2)

Yesterday, we began to establish the fact that communication is an undeniable mandate if your love life will work. We established the fact that the state of communication is the real state of the relationship. If communication is dead, the relationship is dead. If communication is alive the relationship is alive. We further established that it is equally important to get the tone, timing and terrain of our communication right, if it will succeed. Continue reading

CAN LOVE EXIST FROM A DISTANCE? (2)

Yesterday, we established companionship as a vital ingredient of a perfect love environment. We began to navigate the complex waters of long distance relationships. We made the fact clear that real love finds a way to keep in touch. Today, I want to give a few potent guidelines for managing long distance relationships. Continue reading

CAN LOVE EXIST FROM A DISTANCE? (1)

Today, we consider another vital ingredient of the perfect love environment; COMPANIONSHIP.
We saw the wisdom of the creator on long distance relationships when he uttered the words ” it is not good for man to be alone”. In reality loving from a distance has become the dominant mark of this generation with social networking affairs starting per second every day. Continue reading