THE BEST OF LOVE DYNAMICS (4): HOW TO KEEP YOUR LADY

It is one thing to have a lady. It is something else entirely to keep her. The longer you live, you will discover that keeping what you have is by far more difficult than its acquisition. Though commitment comes more naturally for a woman than it does for a man, the men who take a woman’s commitment for granted are soon shocked to realize that she could be seized from his grasp never to return again. Today we turn to what a man needs to do to keep his woman. Continue reading

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THE BEST OF LOVE DYNAMICS (5): HOW TO KNOW IF SOMEONE IS CHEATING ON YOU.

The demise of loyalty is the tragedy of love. Months ago I postulated that there is a fundamental law of exclusivity to love,which states that you cannot genuinely be in love with more than one person. When we claim to be in love with more than one person,one is genuinely loved,while the other or others are objects of our lusts. One is genuinely loved, while the others are being emotionally exploited. One is loved,while the others are hated. If you find yourself in such a multiple love scenario,you must be objective about which one of the above you are and act decisively. Today we want to reveal some crucial warning signs that you are being cheated upon by another. They are… Continue reading

THE BEST OF LOVE DYNAMICS (10): 4 VITAL SIGNS OF DYING LOVE

UNDYING-LOVEYesterday, we began to explore what a love x-ray would look like, as we shared some strategic questions that will help you measure the validity of your relationship before giving up on it. We established that we all must learn how to ask positional, oppositional or confrontational and operational questions of ourselves as well as our partners before shutting the door of love on them.Today, we want to go a little bit deeper on the subject of love x-rays as we consider the vital signs of a dying relationship. When conducting any test, knowing what to look out for is as important as knowing what to do. In other words, after knowing how to perform a love x-ray the next most important thing is to know how to accurately interpret the results of the test. It is the accurate interpretation of the results that fuels qualitative decision making. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(20): 12 CLASSIC LOVE CONCEPTS YOU NEED TO KNOW

  1. Marriage is one thing that is best gotten right, the first time one attempts it.

  2. Should you attempt future relationships while harboring past hurts, such attempts are bound to fail.
  3. If you decide to get married without believing in the idea of marriage, it won’t work.
  4. Being divorced, one can not take up the job for two and not feel the pressure of it.
  5. Coping with divorce requires more hard work than it even takes to make a good marriage work.
  6. Divorce isn’t something you do just because you want it. It should only be embarked upon because you have to do it.
  7. The decision for divorce should be taken slowly and painstakingly, after exhausting every possible avenue of making your marriage work.
  8. When an adulterous marriage becomes a threat to your health and well being,it is logical to leave.
  9. We shouldn’t have to loose our lives in other to save our marriages.
  10. When our human relationships become a threat to our divine relationship,we ought to rethink them.
  11. More tragic than the annulment of a marriage, are those who choose to live in an internal state of divorce from their partners, while maintaining the external facade of a working marriage.
  12. If half of the effort expended on preparing for weddings is invested in preparing the couples for marriage psychologically and spiritually, most marriages will work.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE

Deji Olabode.

Love Dynamics Global.

Enthronement Assembly Lagos.

lovedynamix@gmail.com

@lovedynamix on twitter.

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* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

DIVORCE JUSTIFIED

divorce-malletI hate divorce. It is one of the most tragic experiences that can befall any marriage, particularly when it’s psychological impact on children are considered. However I have lived long enough to know that there are peculiar marital circumstances in which divorce is a credible solution. I know I will most likely be criticized by religious pundits for what I am going to say today, but religious correctness isn’t a higher priority to me than value for the individual. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(19): 12 PENETRATIVE LOVE TRUTHS

  1. Lack of character and integrity are the seeds of sorrow and tears in love.

  2. Accidents are bound to happen in life and love when our speed of progress exceeds our clarity of vision
  3. Most weeping lovers today are guilty of rash and rushed commitments.
  4. Don’t get it twisted,you can only love well,those whom you know well.
  5. Commitment is actually investment and every form of investment must be justified.
  6. The lover you settle for shouldn’t just desire you,they must deserve you
  7. Once the idea of autonomy and independence is pursued at the expense of accountability,tragedy is often the consequence.
  8. Life isn’t just mental or material,life is spiritual.
  9. You must settle for a religion that places the greatest value on human life and love.
  10. Once your spiritual cum religious commitments are made,you must then settle for individuals of a compatible spiritual orientation in love.
  11. Do your utmost best not to settle for less,where you could have had the best.
  12. Without a deep reverence for God and his judgmental prerogatives,most lovers will tend to do whatever they like to their partners without the fear of divine retribution.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE

Deji Olabode.

Love Dynamics Global.

Enthronement Assembly Lagos.

lovedynamix@gmail.com

@lovedynamix on twitter.

BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945

LOVERS ALSO CRY

200564200-032All is well that ends well. Unfortunately, not every love experience will end well. In fact some love experiences are bound to end in tears. Another way to put it is that lovers also cry. Most of the tears however aren’t tears of joy. Most of it are tears of sorrow and regrets. The question we want to answer today is WHY THEY WEPT and HOW YOU WON’T WEEP. Continue reading

4 IDEAS THAT WILL KEEP YOUR LOVE LIFE ON A SPOT AS LONG AS YOU LIVE

stagnantGood ideas are the engine of progress in every civilization. Conversely, bad ideas are responsible for most of the stagnation that we experience in life, including our love lives. Today we unravel some toxic ideas that lovers can embrace to neutralize the progress of their relationships. Continue reading

4 IDEAS THAT WILL RUIN YOUR CHANCES OF FINDING A LOVER

find loveSomeone interestingly said that ideas rule the world. Ideas do not only rule the world it can determine our chances in love. Many are chronically single today because they subscribe to lethal ideas that has practically ruined their chances of finding a lover. Today we want to identify and isolate these ideas in other to boost our chances in love. Continue reading

LOVE ON POINT(18): 12 PREVAILING LOVE TRUTHS

1. The key to the recovery of love is remembrance.

2. Love is an action, sustained by actions and it can only be revived by actions.

3. Don’t wait until your lover’s reaction to you changes, before your action changes towards them. In reality actions must come before reactions and not the other way around.

4. Be realistic. What has been damaged over months and years cannot be perfectly restored over night.

5. Seeds sown on rocky grounds won’t yield a harvest. In love positive response is the sign of life and the ray of hope for recovery.

6. Do not confuse dying love with dead love. You revive the dying but you bury the dead.

7. There is no greater tragedy,than the tragedy of aborted love.

8. The direct preservation of your love memories is the indirect preservation of the feelings that accompanied those particular events.

9. Our actions today become our memories tomorrow.

10. Good memories are the leverage for the recovery of love.

11. Reliving the good memories of a dead love often reopens the wounds and the hurts of the past to the detriment of the health and the vitality of the grieving lover.

12. Investing in a dead love or lover is a pointless waste of your emotional resources. Let it go.

THE GREATEST IS LOVE
Deji Olabode.
Love Dynamics Global.
Enthronement Assembly Lagos.
lovedynamix@gmail.com
@lovedynamix on twitter.
BBpin; 33023120

* Please note that all enquiries about speaking engagements and professional counseling should be sent by email to the above email address. Thanks.

* Also feel free to download our newly launched Love Dynamics app on blackberry app world. Simply click on the following link and download for free. http://appworld.blackberry.com/webstore/content/39425945