10 COMMANDMENTS OF ONLINE RELATIONSHIPS (2)

cyber-relations-virtuality-and-realityWe have been dealing with guidelines for online relationships, particularly our social networking connections. Today, we highlight five other commandments for those you connect with online.

6. THOU SHALL ONLY MEET IN PERSON WITH PEOPLE WHOSE CHARACTER YOU HAVE PROVEN OVER TIME, AND ONLY DO SO IN PUBLIC PLACES, AND DO NOT GO ALONE. You can’t just travel to meet a person you hardly know because you met them online yesterday. Many have met their untimely death that way. First, you must patiently prove your online friend’s integrity for a long time, after which, should you wish to visit them, insist on using public places like a mall or a public restaurant, not in their homes or in hotel rooms. You must also insist on coming with a friend for security purposes. Please you don’t have two lives, refuse to be careless with the one you have. Continue reading

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I WON’T LET YOU MENTOR ME IN LOVE WITHOUT THEM

Chalkboard "Mentorship"In the last few days we have been dealing with the impact of mentoring on our relationships. In the most recent past, I dealt with certain qualities or qualifications of a good love mentor. I intend to complete what I started today. The following are additional non negotiable qualities that I require from any individual before submitting my love life to their mentorship. Continue reading

5 THINGS I LOOK FOR IN A LOVE MENTOR

bigstock-Mentoring-related-words-concep-25300277It takes a mentor to get to your love promised land. However, choosing the wrong mentor can be catastrophic to your love life. How does one distinguish between a potential mentor and a tormentor? The following are five things I consider in a person before I adopt them as a mentor. Continue reading

WHO IS YOUR LOVE MENTOR?

bigstock-Mentoring-related-words-concep-25300277Show me your love mentor, and I can predict how your love will end. The only thing worse than choosing a wrong lover, is choosing a wrong love mentor. I believe there is a love philosopher in every human being but if you subscribe to the wrong love concepts, your love life is doomed. The ideas and advices you choose to bow to, can determine the state of your love life for decades to come. Continue reading