4 THINGS EVERY VIRGIN IS MISSING OUT ON

No doubt, every virgin is missing out on some things. Where we differ is on the specifics of what they are missing out on. Our contemporary society is quick to taunt virgins for missing out on the fun of sex. Interesting as this may sound,I have come to discover that there are other things virgins miss out on,that our depraved world fails to acknowledge. Today we want to unravel those other things, being missed by virgins, and why fun alone cannot be the primary motive of sexual engagement. Continue reading

WHY MOST MEN ARE SCARED TO MARRY

Men-Fear-of-MarriageIt is a fact that the male gender are seldom as interested in getting married, as are their female counterparts. Most ladies are frustrated with the snail pace with which their male partners approach the subject of marriage. Most men even freak out under the pressure to settle down in marriage, some even break the relationship all together, if they can’t get rid of the marital pressure. Continue reading

I BELIEVE IN MARRIAGE

87887258_oMarriage is fast loosing it’s popularity in several postmodern societies. In some other societies, a gruesome distortion of this glorious institution is taking place as issues like same sex marriages seem to be taking the centre stage. In this,animals seem to be showing a more advanced sense of judgment than the political elite of certain nations,by reason of the animals pursuit of opposite sex unions rather than same sex unions. Though I am of the opinion that no individual should be ostracized on the grounds of their sexual orientation, a strong sense of right and wrong needs to be fostered in our societies for sexual cum social anarchy not to take us over. Continue reading

SEXUAL ACCOUNTANCY

It is common for many who get sexually involved to do so motivated by the multidimensional pleasures of the sexual experience. What we seldom consider are the pressures that premarital and extramarital sex introduce into the equation of our lives. While many look at the upside of such sexual escapades, many are wrecked by the downside of their sexual activities. Continue reading

HOW TO START A RELATIONSHIP

theme_relationshipsYesterday, we dealt with how not to start a relationship. Today we want to consider how to start one should you desire to do so. The earlier fact that beginnings are connected to endings hold true for this activity also. Many people tend to begin things without accurately counting the cost of finishing it, as such, they only get half way and turn around. The scene of our civilization is littered with so many abandoned relationships that are a mockery of the efforts of those who started them. Continue reading

IF YOU LOVE ME, PROVE IT

Love must be proven before it can be embraced. One writer said we must prove all things,and hold fast to what we have found to be good. This must mean that it is a colossal mistake to hold fast to any form of love before proving it. Most of us know the practical risks of paying for a product you haven’t tested. Such products though cheap, come without a warranty and a guarantee and they often leave a bitter experience for the purchaser. Continue reading