IF YOU LOVE ME, PROVE IT

Love must be proven before it can be embraced. One writer said we must prove all things,and hold fast to what we have found to be good. This must mean that it is a colossal mistake to hold fast to any form of love before proving it. Most of us know the practical risks of paying for a product you haven’t tested. Such products though cheap, come without a warranty and a guarantee and they often leave a bitter experience for the purchaser. Continue reading

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THE RIGHT TIME TO LOVE

If love is to work, timing is everything. One ancient leader postulated that there is a time to everything including, a time to love. If there is therefore such a thing as the right time to love, there must be a wrong time to do so. Being an analyst of failed and successful relationships over the years, I must confess that many failed relationships were simply a product of wrong timing. Doing the right thing,at the wrong time, still makes it the wrong thing. And doing the wrong thing at the right time also makes it wrong. For us to yield productive results, the right things must be done at the right time. Continue reading

HOW TO HANDLE ONE-SIDED LOVE

One of the most complex love equations there is, is WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WHO IS NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU. I call this one-sided love. The corollary is when you aren’t in love with the one who is in love with you. Millions are faced with this scenario day in day out. We want to attempt to deal with the issue today. Continue reading

SO YOU CALL THAT A KISS?

A kiss? Well kisses are and have always been a means of expressing affection in diverse cultures. Before someone thinks I am about to give a tutorial on the art and science of kissing, let me clarify myself. I want to talk today about the KISS OF BETRAYAL. How to handle affectionate betrayals in love. Nothing is as painful and problematic as finding out someone you genuinely loved has betrayed you. Continue reading

HOW TO CHANGE YOUR LOVER (2)

Change is inevitable in love and those that will make love work must be masters of the art of change. Yesterday, we established that to handle predetermined changes you have to accept them. To handle prejudicial changes, you have to renounce them and to handle principle centered changes, you have to assert them. Today we intend to focus on how to implement changes practically in your love life. Continue reading

WHEN “I LOVE YOU” IS NOT ENOUGH

Many have come to see the sentence “I love you” as the magic wand that opens the heart of anyone they desire. Ladies harass their men for not saying it a hundred times a day, while men try to dodge having to say so until they mean it. The words “I love you” are perhaps the most controversial words ever spoken by man and they will continue to be for generations to come. Continue reading