A LOVE TOO FAR: HOW TO CLOSE EMOTIONAL GAPS

My previous articles dealt with the geographical distance of a lover. But, there is such a thing as EMOTIONAL DISTANCE. A person can be near to you and yet feel so far from you. Like I said proximity is not necessarily equal to intimacy. One writer opines that it is possible for people to draw near to you with their lips and their hearts be very far from you. This tendency of the human heart to be far from another is called emotional distance. Continue reading

CAN LOVE EXIST FROM A DISTANCE? (2)

Yesterday, we established companionship as a vital ingredient of a perfect love environment. We began to navigate the complex waters of long distance relationships. We made the fact clear that real love finds a way to keep in touch. Today, I want to give a few potent guidelines for managing long distance relationships. Continue reading

CAN LOVE EXIST FROM A DISTANCE? (1)

Today, we consider another vital ingredient of the perfect love environment; COMPANIONSHIP.
We saw the wisdom of the creator on long distance relationships when he uttered the words ” it is not good for man to be alone”. In reality loving from a distance has become the dominant mark of this generation with social networking affairs starting per second every day. Continue reading

WORK OUT YOUR LOVE, DONT WATCH IT OUT!!!

The perfect love environment has been proven to require the following elements – fun, food and finance to thrive. Today, we want to deal with the fourth factor and it is WORK, HARDWORK. One cardinal reason why love fails is the sheer fact that we often underestimate what it takes for it to work. Is there anyone here who, planning to build a new house, doesn’t first sit down and figure the cost so you’ll know if you can complete it? Most love towers we build crumbles with disappointment because the cost of building such a lofty thing was not properly estimated. Continue reading

NOURISHING YOUR LOVE!!!

A few days ago we started the journey into discovering the “SECRET INGREDIENTS OF A PERFECT LOVE ENVIRONMENT”. We established fun as the first factor or what some call pleasure. This came to us as we gleaned from the wisdom of the creator in locating the first couple in Eden (Pleasure). By so doing we were instructed that fun is an ideal location for love. Continue reading